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Re: Eddie Hearn bullying allegations ????

Posted: 26 Jan 2012, 05:34
by danfoster
gobbles wrote:So no one think that her current damaged and incredibly needy personality could have something to do with a terrible childhood?

And the response on here to her saying she was bullied is attack and criticise her?

No wonder people don't speak up.
You really do hate Eddie Hearn!

Re: Eddie Hearn bullying allegations ????

Posted: 26 Jan 2012, 06:20
by Lenny
King Geedorah wrote:I don't think anyone condones bullying but the problem with Marsh's outbursts is the suspicion that she just uses them to fuels what is left of her fame. Just like Ulrika's date rape claims a few years back were designed to keep her in the headlines. She wasn't doing it for her fellow sisters.

School's a rough place. You sink or swim and most people view it has something that happened to them but has now passed. Others tend to hang everything bad in their life on their school days. It is all about perspective.

Ask people in their late 30s, 40s and 50s about bullying and they'll tell a different story to Marsh. There wasn't this massive victim industry and a constant need to air dirty laundry in public.

Talk to people in their early 30s. 20s and teens and they'll give you gospel and verse for days on end about their ordeals. Sure, everything is relative and this applies to mental anguish but the elephant in the room is that people are mard arses these days or are savvy enough to play their cards until they are worn out.

The long and short of that doc is that Marsh, in my view, used the parents of a dead child to give her doc a bit of an edge. She used them as a means rather than ends in themselves and it struck me as disingenuous.

Then you had that girl who was doing some modelling. She looked great but kept dwelling on the past. You have to swallow that crap at some point. She should have looked at the camera and said "I look great. Bullies, blow it out your arses and the only creases you'll get are across your bellies."

Marsh is getting bogged down in this bullying shit. Her powers of mental and spiritual recuperation need to step up.

Whatever happened to Gary Cooper?
Your post reminds me of this
http://www.spectator.co.uk/essays/all/7 ... ture.thtml

Re: Eddie Hearn bullying allegations ????

Posted: 26 Jan 2012, 06:21
by damianhucker1
G0mez wrote:Sorry,

But couldn't care a toss what comes out of her mouth.

She goes to the opening of an envelope wearing nothing but gaffer tape covering her axe wound - hardly the persona of a bullied individual.

Let me tell you something, a girl aged 11 hung herself at Christmas about 10 doors from my house, she was silently picked on for the years for being a beautiful looking girl who was also academic. Hit and mentally tortured on facebook.

The first i'd heard of the tragedy was when I went to the local shop to buy milk & bread etc, and I was shocked when there was a sign that read "No eggs will be sold to under 16s".

I asked why the sign saying that? and was informed of the girl's suicide, but even more terrible is that a flock of girls went and pelted their grieving parents home with eggs after news broke she'd hung herself.

I dont live in leafy buckinghamshire, nor do I live on the Gaza strip. This is a normal 2.4 children average-Joe area. And I couldn't believe my eyes.

So when i read about bullying, there is a clear distinction between bitching teenagers and the heavy end of the scale. Having this slapper as some sort of anti-bullying patriot is vile in my opinion and hardly the stuff to aspire to - a tits-out bag on steroids.
Know exactly who you mean mate , didnt know the girl but know her best friends dad .
Apparantly 60% of people experience bullying at some point of their childhood , but of that statistic how many truly are bullied ? ive had fights in school and had name calling as have most kids but i would never describe it as being bullied . just normal stuff that i no doubt was guilty of myself at times , id imagine less than half of that statistic were truly bullied , I really dont imagine someone who was bullied growing into a jodie marsh type , the effect it would have on self esteem etc would be irreparable , as was the case with this tragic young kid , ive got a daughter whos nearly 13 , a son at 11 and then a sons at 7 and 1 and a daughter at 3 , her death really hit home with me as i thought what could happen if it was one of mine .

Re: Eddie Hearn bullying allegations ????

Posted: 26 Jan 2012, 06:22
by Datsue
King Geedorah wrote:
Whatever happened to Gary Cooper?

He died?

Or d'you mean 'cos he fought the Sioux in all those Westerns?

I think he'd be a wonderful figurehead for the Abused Cowboys Group.

Re: Eddie Hearn bullying allegations ????

Posted: 26 Jan 2012, 06:54
by ERIC GUY
She used to go out with Gary Delaney, thats when I first met her, and SHE did dress like that all the time....

Re: Eddie Hearn bullying allegations ????

Posted: 26 Jan 2012, 07:00
by Coco
ERIC GUY wrote:She used to go out with Gary Delaney, thats when I first met her, and SHE did dress like that all the time....
Yeah and she has been on the telly bitching about him too

Re: Eddie Hearn bullying allegations ????

Posted: 26 Jan 2012, 07:27
by Dirk Kelly
The woman courts controvsy to keep herself in the media. She's talked about bullying for years but no mention of Eddie Hearn until he gets famous - go figure.

Delaney gets send down - runs to the press about her years of abuse with him.

Porbably more instances of this that I can't be bothered to type or look into.

I've met the lady, she's dog rough in real life (hope I don't get accused of bullying) and when on stage in front of thousands of people at the Grand Prix she layed into Jordan in a big way, some might say she was bullying her. What's good for the goose and all that..

Re: Eddie Hearn bullying allegations ????

Posted: 26 Jan 2012, 07:29
by damianhucker1
The woman courts controvsy to keep herself in the media. She's talked about bullying for years but no mention of Eddie Hearn until he gets famous - go figure.
To be fair though what would be the point in mentioning him if he wasnt famous , no one would know who he is anyway .

Not that im backing her up or anything , just making the point . :TU:

Re: Eddie Hearn bullying allegations ????

Posted: 26 Jan 2012, 08:30
by whiskey
I think there is a distinction between not getting on and disliking a person - and bullying.

Kids lock horns all the time - one minute their best friends, a bit of gossip later and their sworn enemies.

Some people play the victim to a tee. This person did this to me, this person said that and that gang of people also did this. Some people just deliberately court attention - whether it's positive or negative - just to fuel their ego.

Everyone knows a girl who always goes out with the dickheads, the older guys, always in floods of tears, always getting blind drunk at parties and wailing on someone's shoulder, always the wronged party. In short, an attention whore.

I just find it distastefull when that type of individual self-styles themselves as the bullies champion. Her route to market is through the media. Anytime she can get her photo or latest sob story into print it's a victory, another good day at the office. And riding the back's of genuinely bullied and frightened children in her quest for column inches leaves me cold. Espeically given what happened to a neighbouring family at xmas.

Re: Eddie Hearn bullying allegations ????

Posted: 26 Jan 2012, 08:44
by DavidPayne
Not one of you has ever spoken to her.

Re: Eddie Hearn bullying allegations ????

Posted: 26 Jan 2012, 08:48
by damianhucker1
DavidPayne wrote:Not one of you has ever spoken to her.
No , dont intend to either .

Re: Eddie Hearn bullying allegations ????

Posted: 26 Jan 2012, 08:57
by stujones
Wake up call wrote:Am I missing something or does that Daily Mail article not actually mention Eddie at all? I've scanned it three times and it doesn't mention him.
x 2.

I'm not condoning bullying in one little way, it can scar you for life mentally no doubt. However, the bully is also a teenager aswell not thinking straight (biological fact about the brain development of a teenager) and I am sure he/she in some cases is scared with regrets etc.

I know "sorry" isn't enough in cases - but even the bully has to live up to peer pressure. One of my mates at A level bullied this kid no end before he matured and knuckled down to his A level's. It was horrible, the poor bullied kid had a physical disability and my mate used to just go to extremes to him.

Many a time in the 15 years since, my mate is sobing in his pint about his regrets.

Adolescence is the awkard period... and there are way to much pressure put on from society to kids who are not mature enough mentally or physically to cope.

Re: Eddie Hearn bullying allegations ????

Posted: 26 Jan 2012, 08:58
by Lenny
DavidPayne wrote:Not one of you has ever spoken to her.
And you can't make accurate assumptions on people on how they are portrayed in the media? :oo

Re: Eddie Hearn bullying allegations ????

Posted: 26 Jan 2012, 09:11
by Coco
DavidPayne wrote:Not one of you has ever spoken to her.
I have, I bet Eric has too

Re: Eddie Hearn bullying allegations ????

Posted: 26 Jan 2012, 09:13
by bripez
Coco wrote:
DavidPayne wrote:Not one of you has ever spoken to her.
I have, I bet Eric has too
Yeah, Eric was deffo telling her how he knows Lennox etc. etc. ......................

Re: Eddie Hearn bullying allegations ????

Posted: 26 Jan 2012, 09:16
by Coco
bripez wrote:
Coco wrote:
DavidPayne wrote:Not one of you has ever spoken to her.
I have, I bet Eric has too
Yeah, Eric was deffo telling her how he knows Lennox etc. etc. ......................

You may mock but Eric genuinely does know all of these people and is proper friends with most, he prob even has a pic with Jodie!!

Re: Eddie Hearn bullying allegations ????

Posted: 26 Jan 2012, 09:18
by damianhucker1
Coco wrote:
bripez wrote:
Coco wrote: I have, I bet Eric has too
Yeah, Eric was deffo telling her how he knows Lennox etc. etc. ......................

You may mock but Eric genuinely does know all of these people and is proper friends with most, he prob even has a pic with Jodie!!
If theres anybody that guy hasnt got a pic with there probably not worth knowing .

Legend .

:TU:

Re: Eddie Hearn bullying allegations ????

Posted: 26 Jan 2012, 09:33
by Dirk Kelly
DavidPayne wrote:Not one of you has ever spoken to her.
I have.

Re: Eddie Hearn bullying allegations ????

Posted: 26 Jan 2012, 09:56
by jamesmcdonnell
Wow, I mean, this is really old news though, ok, so maybe Eddie was a bit of a bully at school - lots of people are, but they grow out of it.

Jesus, is this really worth talking about?

Re: Eddie Hearn bullying allegations ????

Posted: 26 Jan 2012, 10:01
by Ketchel
Cardiff-Lad1 wrote:This was posted on another thread by Jabnmove!! -
IT'S a classic mystery involving a beautiful girl and a heartless villain.

Just who was the bully who made glamour model Jodie Marsh's life a misery at her private school?

Former classmates were quick to identify a suspect when the Essex Wives star said she started wearing her outrageous outfits in a quest for fame to "show her bullies I wasn't ugly and could be something".

And the name that came up was Eddie Hearn - son of top boxing promoter Barry Hearn. One ex-classmate claimed: "Eddie fits the bill all right. There was an 'in-crowd' who used to pick on Jodie."

Another added: "Eddie was part of a popular group. But I don't think he was popular, so much as a bully - and people were scared of him. He and Jodie didn't get on very well. She got a lot of sh** because she had a big nose. She wasn't very popular and definitely didn't enjoy school."

Friends of Jodie - a close rival to Jordan in the upfront glamour market - have also pointed the finger at Hearn, 24, who now runs the golf section of his father's multi-million-pound sports management and promotion empire and also manages champion golfer Greg Owen and rookie John E. Morgan.

But he firmly denies that he was the bully.

"All I can say is there is no truth in it," he insists. "I've got nothing to do with the matter, I don't know what you are talking about ."

Millionaire's daughter Jodie, 24, was educated at pounds 10,000-a- year Brentwood School in Essex, where famous old boys include Foreign Secretary Jack Straw and comedy star Griff Rhys-Jones. She has three A-levels and once dreamed of becoming a lawyer.

Jodie has said she was picked on after rejecting the advances of a boy - but has never named him. She said: "This boy was the ringleader of the year, incredibly rich and popular When he asked me out I said no because all I wanted to do was learn...and then the nightmare began.

"The bullying started when I was 11 and continued right through school. I was a bit of a boffin and got bullied for being clever. I was also bullied for my nose, which had a huge bump after I broke it playing hockey. Then I had a nose job and got bullied because of that."

Eddie's father Barry Hearn, who is chairman of Leyton Orient Football Club, made his name in the 1980s as manager of snooker legend Steve Davis. He then broke into boxing, promoting world title fights for Frank Bruno, Chris Eubank and Prince Naseem.

Its the same as one of the links but this is for the benefit of people on works PC's that cannot sometimes follow links,...... :TU:

When was this article written? No way is Jodie Marsh 24 years old. Or am I missing something?

Re: Eddie Hearn bullying allegations ????

Posted: 26 Jan 2012, 10:02
by Glyn Leach
DavidPayne wrote:Not one of you has ever spoken to her.
I have. I said: 'fornicate off you orange ardvaark."

Re: Eddie Hearn bullying allegations ????

Posted: 26 Jan 2012, 10:13
by whiskey
Glyn Leach wrote:
DavidPayne wrote:Not one of you has ever spoken to her.
I have. I said: Now 'eff off you orange ardvaark. And take your clothes and knickers with ya. "
Fixed :D

Re: Eddie Hearn bullying allegations ????

Posted: 26 Jan 2012, 10:23
by Glyn Leach
And it should be pointed out that in none of the articles does Marsh point the finger at Eddie, it's others. Am I starting to smell an agenda here?

Re: Eddie Hearn bullying allegations ????

Posted: 26 Jan 2012, 10:24
by coghaugen11
Eddie was only a kid at the time, he probably regrets it. I very partially bullied a few people from school days and regret it. Oh well, it probably made them stronger.

Re: Eddie Hearn bullying allegations ????

Posted: 26 Jan 2012, 10:25
by Glyn Leach
G0mez wrote:
Glyn Leach wrote:
DavidPayne wrote:Not one of you has ever spoken to her.
I have. I said: Now 'eff off you orange ardvaark. And take your clothes and knickers with ya. "
Fixed :D
I now know who I'll blame if I ever get sued on here :TU: