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Re: BJS jumping on the mental health bandwagon

Posted: 16 Dec 2018, 14:20
by BitPlayer
jamamb wrote: 15 Dec 2018, 21:25 bullying and humiliating people is great for there mental health i hear
It's actually pretty common for abusive people, especially abusive parents to do it because of mental illness, and sadly pass on the suffering.

Re: BJS jumping on the mental health bandwagon

Posted: 16 Dec 2018, 14:22
by seanilius
BitPlayer wrote: 16 Dec 2018, 14:20
jamamb wrote: 15 Dec 2018, 21:25 bullying and humiliating people is great for there mental health i hear
It's actually pretty common for abusive people, especially abusive parents to do it because of mental illness, and sadly pass on the suffering.
But in BJS it's down to him being a deeply unpleasant person. Can't begin to imagine what kind of blight on society his son is going to turn out to be.

Re: BJS jumping on the mental health bandwagon

Posted: 16 Dec 2018, 14:24
by jamamb
his sons already going around nutting people and laughing at it

Re: BJS jumping on the mental health bandwagon

Posted: 16 Dec 2018, 14:52
by Cyclops
seanilius wrote: 16 Dec 2018, 14:22
BitPlayer wrote: 16 Dec 2018, 14:20
jamamb wrote: 15 Dec 2018, 21:25 bullying and humiliating people is great for there mental health i hear
It's actually pretty common for abusive people, especially abusive parents to do it because of mental illness, and sadly pass on the suffering.
But in BJS it's down to him being a deeply unpleasant person. Can't begin to imagine what kind of blight on society his son is going to turn out to be.
Well, he was going to be a spoilt millionaire rich-kid blight on society, but his Dad appears to be sabotaging that one for him quite nicely.

Re: BJS jumping on the mental health bandwagon

Posted: 16 Dec 2018, 15:28
by bigjack
clopixolacuphase wrote: 16 Dec 2018, 14:52
seanilius wrote: 16 Dec 2018, 14:22
BitPlayer wrote: 16 Dec 2018, 14:20

It's actually pretty common for abusive people, especially abusive parents to do it because of mental illness, and sadly pass on the suffering.
But in BJS it's down to him being a deeply unpleasant person. Can't begin to imagine what kind of blight on society his son is going to turn out to be.
Well, he was going to be a spoilt millionaire rich-kid blight on society, but his Dad appears to be sabotaging that one for him quite nicely.
He'll probably grow up and father several sprogs from different women and not pay a penny for any of them.

Re: BJS jumping on the mental health bandwagon

Posted: 16 Dec 2018, 18:11
by deadpan
He'll be ballooning up to 20 stone as a final 'please like me' gambit.

Re: BJS jumping on the mental health bandwagon

Posted: 16 Dec 2018, 21:06
by Stuarty
Must be getting fashionable to have a mental health issue now :doh:

I've suffered for years and even last night before I went out I was climbing the walls with anxiety! It's a horrible thing to have to deal with. I have kids and I need to hide it from them which isn't easy either.

Fury is a massive inspiration to me. It might be a bit shallow taking faith from a celeb on the telly but I can relate to the guy and it genuinely gives me a bit of hope! BJS should clam up and just fight! This is a desperate grab at air time!

Re: BJS jumping on the mental health bandwagon

Posted: 16 Dec 2018, 21:08
by oogiebe
Stuarty wrote: 16 Dec 2018, 21:06 Must be getting fashionable to have a mental health issue now :doh:

I've suffered for years and even last night before I went out I was climbing the walls with anxiety! It's a horrible thing to have to deal with. I have kids and I need to hide it from them which isn't easy either.

Fury is a massive inspiration to me. It might be a bit shallow taking faith from a celeb on the telly but I can relate to the guy and it genuinely gives me a bit of hope! BJS should clam up and just fight! This is a desperate grab at air time!
Keep fighting through it Stu, it is at times seemingly impossible, but you're doing it! Fvck BJS!

Re: BJS jumping on the mental health bandwagon

Posted: 16 Dec 2018, 21:14
by Stuarty
oogiebe wrote: 16 Dec 2018, 21:08
Stuarty wrote: 16 Dec 2018, 21:06 Must be getting fashionable to have a mental health issue now :doh:

I've suffered for years and even last night before I went out I was climbing the walls with anxiety! It's a horrible thing to have to deal with. I have kids and I need to hide it from them which isn't easy either.

Fury is a massive inspiration to me. It might be a bit shallow taking faith from a celeb on the telly but I can relate to the guy and it genuinely gives me a bit of hope! BJS should clam up and just fight! This is a desperate grab at air time!
Keep fighting through it Stu, it is at times seemingly impossible, but you're doing it! Fvck BJS!
Thanks for the kind words mate :TU:

I don't help myself at times tbh. I drink too much and end up on the Coke but I'm gonna make an effort to sort that out. I'm nearly 35 and have kids to worry about. Would be easier if I didn't have to worry about myself :lol:

Re: BJS jumping on the mental health bandwagon

Posted: 16 Dec 2018, 21:17
by oogiebe
Stuarty wrote: 16 Dec 2018, 21:14
oogiebe wrote: 16 Dec 2018, 21:08
Stuarty wrote: 16 Dec 2018, 21:06 Must be getting fashionable to have a mental health issue now :doh:

I've suffered for years and even last night before I went out I was climbing the walls with anxiety! It's a horrible thing to have to deal with. I have kids and I need to hide it from them which isn't easy either.

Fury is a massive inspiration to me. It might be a bit shallow taking faith from a celeb on the telly but I can relate to the guy and it genuinely gives me a bit of hope! BJS should clam up and just fight! This is a desperate grab at air time!
Keep fighting through it Stu, it is at times seemingly impossible, but you're doing it! Fvck BJS!
Thanks for the kind words mate :TU:

I don't help myself at times tbh. I drink too much and end up on the Coke but I'm gonna make an effort to sort that out. I'm nearly 35 and have kids to worry about. Would be easier if I didn't have to worry about myself :lol:
Your kids give you the motivation you need! Your a good man!

Re: BJS jumping on the mental health bandwagon

Posted: 16 Dec 2018, 21:20
by Stuarty
oogiebe wrote: 16 Dec 2018, 21:17
Stuarty wrote: 16 Dec 2018, 21:14
oogiebe wrote: 16 Dec 2018, 21:08
Keep fighting through it Stu, it is at times seemingly impossible, but you're doing it! Fvck BJS!
Thanks for the kind words mate :TU:

I don't help myself at times tbh. I drink too much and end up on the Coke but I'm gonna make an effort to sort that out. I'm nearly 35 and have kids to worry about. Would be easier if I didn't have to worry about myself :lol:
Your kids give you the motivation you need! Your a good man!
Thanks very much mate. Appreciate the message :TU:

Re: BJS jumping on the mental health bandwagon

Posted: 17 Dec 2018, 07:55
by bigjack
Stuarty wrote: 16 Dec 2018, 21:20
oogiebe wrote: 16 Dec 2018, 21:17
Stuarty wrote: 16 Dec 2018, 21:14

Thanks for the kind words mate :TU:

I don't help myself at times tbh. I drink too much and end up on the Coke but I'm gonna make an effort to sort that out. I'm nearly 35 and have kids to worry about. Would be easier if I didn't have to worry about myself :lol:
Your kids give you the motivation you need! Your a good man!
Thanks very much mate. Appreciate the message :TU:
When your kids turn to you and say 'Dad we're proud of you for turning your life around' it will make you the happiest man around :TU:

Re: BJS jumping on the mental health bandwagon

Posted: 17 Dec 2018, 09:06
by tobyh5
Stuarty wrote: 16 Dec 2018, 21:14
oogiebe wrote: 16 Dec 2018, 21:08
Stuarty wrote: 16 Dec 2018, 21:06 Must be getting fashionable to have a mental health issue now :doh:

I've suffered for years and even last night before I went out I was climbing the walls with anxiety! It's a horrible thing to have to deal with. I have kids and I need to hide it from them which isn't easy either.

Fury is a massive inspiration to me. It might be a bit shallow taking faith from a celeb on the telly but I can relate to the guy and it genuinely gives me a bit of hope! BJS should clam up and just fight! This is a desperate grab at air time!
Keep fighting through it Stu, it is at times seemingly impossible, but you're doing it! Fvck BJS!
Thanks for the kind words mate :TU:

I don't help myself at times tbh. I drink too much and end up on the Coke but I'm gonna make an effort to sort that out. I'm nearly 35 and have kids to worry about. Would be easier if I didn't have to worry about myself :lol:
You already know the coke and drink will be worsening the situation and I hope you can power through and get past that. I am sure you will. From the limited interactions of a forum, one can tell from your tone and writing style and responses that you are a decent chap, so good luck :TU:

Re: BJS jumping on the mental health bandwagon

Posted: 17 Dec 2018, 10:24
by keirw
I have friends and family who have struggled through depression, some have barely survived it (literally) and it is still a constant battle for others.

To hear BJS try to hijack the illness in a transparent attempt to become relevant makes my blood boil.

Re: BJS jumping on the mental health bandwagon

Posted: 17 Dec 2018, 10:30
by seanilius
keirw wrote: 17 Dec 2018, 10:24 I have friends and family who have struggled through depression, some have barely survived it (literally) and it is still a constant battle for others.

To hear BJS try to hijack the illness in a transparent attempt to become relevant makes my blood boil.
It's beyond sickening, isn't it? The fact that the team at Fish Eyes HQ think it's acceptable is also beyond the pale. Not many are falling for it, seemingly. I just hope that strides in understanding of mental health problems, specifically within boxing, aren't undermined by gutter c***s like BJS using it excuse their disgusting behaviour.

Re: BJS jumping on the mental health bandwagon

Posted: 17 Dec 2018, 10:40
by jamamb
i think the comment that nails it for me is

'but his eyebrows look like mustaches'

Re: BJS jumping on the mental health bandwagon

Posted: 17 Dec 2018, 16:05
by Stuarty
tobyh5 wrote: 17 Dec 2018, 09:06
Stuarty wrote: 16 Dec 2018, 21:14
oogiebe wrote: 16 Dec 2018, 21:08
Keep fighting through it Stu, it is at times seemingly impossible, but you're doing it! Fvck BJS!
Thanks for the kind words mate :TU:

I don't help myself at times tbh. I drink too much and end up on the Coke but I'm gonna make an effort to sort that out. I'm nearly 35 and have kids to worry about. Would be easier if I didn't have to worry about myself :lol:
You already know the coke and drink will be worsening the situation and I hope you can power through and get past that. I am sure you will. From the limited interactions of a forum, one can tell from your tone and writing style and responses that you are a decent chap, so good luck :TU:
Cheers Toby much appreciated :TU:

Re: BJS jumping on the mental health bandwagon

Posted: 17 Dec 2018, 16:06
by Stuarty
bigjack wrote: 17 Dec 2018, 07:55
Stuarty wrote: 16 Dec 2018, 21:20
oogiebe wrote: 16 Dec 2018, 21:17
Your kids give you the motivation you need! Your a good man!
Thanks very much mate. Appreciate the message :TU:
When your kids turn to you and say 'Dad we're proud of you for turning your life around' it will make you the happiest man around :TU:
They'll probably just say 'shut up and give us a biscuit ya old dick' :lol: :lol:

Re: BJS jumping on the mental health bandwagon

Posted: 17 Dec 2018, 16:08
by gilgamesh
This guy has become one of my most hated guys in the sport. Wasn't very hard. I think I might dislike this guy more than Fury even. At least Fury has SOME integrity it would seem. This guy is just a piece of sh*t on every level.

Re: BJS jumping on the mental health bandwagon

Posted: 17 Dec 2018, 16:32
by Oiky
Stuarty wrote: 16 Dec 2018, 21:06 Must be getting fashionable to have a mental health issue now :doh:

I've suffered for years and even last night before I went out I was climbing the walls with anxiety! It's a horrible thing to have to deal with. I have kids and I need to hide it from them which isn't easy either.

Fury is a massive inspiration to me. It might be a bit shallow taking faith from a celeb on the telly but I can relate to the guy and it genuinely gives me a bit of hope! BJS should clam up and just fight! This is a desperate grab at air time!
You come across like a real decent chap :TU: rough and ready and down to earth :TU:

Hope you have more good times than bad mate 🤜

Re: BJS jumping on the mental health bandwagon

Posted: 17 Dec 2018, 16:47
by Stuarty
Oiky wrote: 17 Dec 2018, 16:32
Stuarty wrote: 16 Dec 2018, 21:06 Must be getting fashionable to have a mental health issue now :doh:

I've suffered for years and even last night before I went out I was climbing the walls with anxiety! It's a horrible thing to have to deal with. I have kids and I need to hide it from them which isn't easy either.

Fury is a massive inspiration to me. It might be a bit shallow taking faith from a celeb on the telly but I can relate to the guy and it genuinely gives me a bit of hope! BJS should clam up and just fight! This is a desperate grab at air time!
You come across like a real decent chap :TU: rough and ready and down to earth :TU:

Hope you have more good times than bad mate 🤜
Cheers bro :TU:

Re: BJS jumping on the mental health bandwagon

Posted: 17 Dec 2018, 17:27
by Nondescript
BitPlayer wrote: 16 Dec 2018, 14:20
jamamb wrote: 15 Dec 2018, 21:25 bullying and humiliating people is great for there mental health i hear
It's actually pretty common for abusive people, especially abusive parents to do it because of mental illness, and sadly pass on the suffering.
That's still an excuse that. Plenty of people get abused who don't go around bullying people.

Re: BJS jumping on the mental health bandwagon

Posted: 17 Dec 2018, 17:28
by Nondescript
Stuarty wrote: 16 Dec 2018, 21:06 Must be getting fashionable to have a mental health issue now :doh:

I've suffered for years and even last night before I went out I was climbing the walls with anxiety! It's a horrible thing to have to deal with. I have kids and I need to hide it from them which isn't easy either.

Fury is a massive inspiration to me. It might be a bit shallow taking faith from a celeb on the telly but I can relate to the guy and it genuinely gives me a bit of hope! BJS should clam up and just fight! This is a desperate grab at air time!
Anxiety when it's really peaking, is absolute torture.

Re: BJS jumping on the mental health bandwagon

Posted: 17 Dec 2018, 17:29
by oogiebe
Nondescript wrote: 17 Dec 2018, 17:28
Stuarty wrote: 16 Dec 2018, 21:06 Must be getting fashionable to have a mental health issue now :doh:

I've suffered for years and even last night before I went out I was climbing the walls with anxiety! It's a horrible thing to have to deal with. I have kids and I need to hide it from them which isn't easy either.

Fury is a massive inspiration to me. It might be a bit shallow taking faith from a celeb on the telly but I can relate to the guy and it genuinely gives me a bit of hope! BJS should clam up and just fight! This is a desperate grab at air time!
Anxiety when it's really peaking, is absolute torture.
Worse than depression, anxiety is. It's completely debilitating.

Re: BJS jumping on the mental health bandwagon

Posted: 17 Dec 2018, 17:46
by Nondescript
oogiebe wrote: 17 Dec 2018, 17:29
Nondescript wrote: 17 Dec 2018, 17:28
Stuarty wrote: 16 Dec 2018, 21:06 Must be getting fashionable to have a mental health issue now :doh:

I've suffered for years and even last night before I went out I was climbing the walls with anxiety! It's a horrible thing to have to deal with. I have kids and I need to hide it from them which isn't easy either.

Fury is a massive inspiration to me. It might be a bit shallow taking faith from a celeb on the telly but I can relate to the guy and it genuinely gives me a bit of hope! BJS should clam up and just fight! This is a desperate grab at air time!
Anxiety when it's really peaking, is absolute torture.
Worse than depression, anxiety is. It's completely debilitating.
Yeah. For me the heart palpitations are the worst part. Feeling like you're about to have a heart attack is never a fun experience.