No Gain With Pain
Gary Young,,the former amateur heavyweight that I used to workout with in the 70's,wanted to get together for lunch. Our paths recrossed several years ago when I discovered that he was working part time at the gym where I had just joined. This was a pleasant surprise to say the least. The gym is located at the public park run by the City Parks And Recreation Department in Ocean Beach. The facility is comprised of ballfields,tennis courts,and the gym. I hadn't seen Gary more than a few times in the last 40 years.Once in awhile I'd see him at the swap meet,sometimes at the beach riding his bike.But now that I knew he was working at the gym we could re establish our relationship. Gary and I had retired from the school district.He was keeping busy working at the gym.He didn't need the money. Gary was still lifing the weights at a good pace. I had slowed down a lot because of the pain in my hips. We used to workout together at Vic's Ocean Beach Gym on Newport Street.At one time Gary held the record for the deadlift.I think he had pulled up 760 pounds.
Gary wanted to get together for lunch at a local spot that was very popular in Ocean Beach named Nati's. It was a Mexican reataurant that had been in business since 1960. I remember when it opened.It immediately became very popular with the locals. The guy who bought the place out in the 80's was a classmate of mine from high school. He didn't change the menu or the décor.Nati's did a hell of a business,but the owner,my fellow classmate, was getting tired of overseeing everything. He wanted to retire to his winter home in Idaho and hunt animals.The insides were showing its wear and tear.The wallpaper was peeling.The countertops needed a good coat of varnish ,Some of the ceiling tiles were cracked.So he sold the place to some guy who has plans into tranforming the restaurant into one of these trendy bars that serve OK food but specialize in every craft beer imaginable and all the hard liquors that are laced with cough syrup. To tell the truth I never cared for Nati's as a Mexican restaurant. The food was made for the gringo taste buds.The salsa tasted like tomato soup. The beef tacos had ground meat inside. And instead of getting tortillas on the side,you got served crackers.If you wanted tortillas they gave you these paper thin wafers that you can buy packaged in cellophane that they sell at Vons. The irony was all the help in the kitchen were Mexicans. Some had worked at Nati's since the place opened,but I can count on one hand all the Mexicans I ever saw eating in the place.
I arrived at Nati's before Gary . I told the waitress that I was expecting a friend and to come back a little later. When Gary walked in I saw he was with someone.
"Roger,I want you to meet my friend Dr. Ross Muller. You don't mind if he eats with us?"
"Of course not,"I answered as I got up to shake his hand.
Gary's friend looked around 20 years younger than Gary and I.He looked in good shape.
"Roger," said Gary continuing,"Ross is treating me for that skin condition."I just left his office and invited him to have lunch with us."
The waitress saw that the others had arrived and came over to take our orders. I played it safe and ordered a crispy quesadilla and an iced tea.Gary and his friend went with the rolled tacos and a Coke.
"Gary tells me that you used to workout together at the old 32nd Street Naval Gym."
"That's right. When Gary was still in the amateurs I'd try to give him a good sparring session."
"Gary says you had a good right hand."
"Yeh,the only problem was I never landed it too often."
Gary smiled at me after I said that.
"I knew that I wasn't going to be no fighter,"I said. "Besides,I get headaches afterwards."
"I'm treating an ex fighter now that's going through dementia,"said the doctor."He's only 40 years old."
"I'm seeing more fighters getting dementia earlier and more often than I did when I was fighting,"commented Gary.
"I've got the same impression,"I added."What do you think doc?"
"Well,I don't know. He's the first fighter that is one of my patients."
"Anything particular about him?"I asked.
"He told me that he used a lot of painkillers legal and not legal when fighting."
"You think that had something to do with it?"
"Put it this way ,"said the doc. "If you're numb to pain and get punched in the head you don't feel the blow, I want to say normally.The threshold is very high because of the painkiller. But just the same the brain is getting slammed into the back of the skull."
"Just before I quit fighting I started to see a lot of fighters getting juiced up before a match,"interceded Gary.
"The guy I'm treating is going down pretty fast."
"I'm on a boxing forum,"I said."There's a topic about a fighter who has been in over 200 fights and lost all but a handful. He's been KO'd over thirty times."
"They let these guys fight every week and he goes out there and takes a beating."said Gary.
"They fight all over the states and in other countries. They get these fighters on drugs that the commissions in these far away places don't check on.It's like doping horses ,but worse."I said.
"All the shots and pills they give these guys is the only way they can keep pushing them out there,"said Gary.
"Sounds like boxing needs some stricter controls,"said the doc.
"Anyone involved handling a fighter who gets beat like a drum fight after fight is got to be the lowest,"I said.
"It sounds pretty sad,"said the doc."To tell the truth I've never been a fan of boxing."
Me and Gary said nothng.
"Well,I see waitress is coming over with our food,"said the doc.
I was beginning to lose my appetite.
"Gary says the food here is great,"said the doc lo king at the waitress juggling the plates in her arms.
"I wouldn't know how to describe it,"I said.
