Rick Farris wrote:Randyman wrote:"Ain't That a Kick in the Head"
During Andrew’s visit I kept thinking about Rog’s reference to “Ain’t that a kick in the head” by Dean Martin. I was thinking back to when Jeri and I met, when things were just beginning for us. We had high hopes for our future. It hasn’t been perfect, and there were some rocky moments, just like anyone else, but that’s life.
At night before Jeri and I go to sleep we talk about the kids and grandkids, sometimes we laugh a little, sometimes we cry a little. We savor both. We couldn’t have predicted where we would be. When our kids were little they wanted to hear how their mother and I met. It was ordinary but to the kids it was special event.
We met, on October 19th, 1974, at The Golden West nightclub in Norwalk. It was an after hours club with a big, oversized dance floor. I was with a friend of mine. I was twenty at the time. We walked into the club and I immediately noticed this young woman. I though she had to be a model. I asked her to dance once or twice but was unable to carry on a intelligent conversation. A little later she walked up to me and said “Do you mind if I stand here with you a few minutes? That guy over there is really bothering me.”. “Yeah, Sure, go ahead”. I said. Now I was in more familiar territory. I sent out vibes and a look to the guy to let him know that she was with me now.
I bought her a drink. It was after hours, so it was a soda, a Dr. Pepper, her favorite back then. We talked for a while and she asked me “Why do you keep staring at me? I don’t recall what my answer was. I remember what I was thinking. I’m keeping this one.
Fast forward to May 13th 2009. We’re in our mid fifties now. We are at the Long Beach Airport dropping off our son. He’s returning to Seattle. His life is there now. He is known as Drew by his friends and coworkers. That’s what he was called in the Coast Guard and it stuck. Our granddaughters Mariah and Maddie are with us. They wanted to come and say goodbye to uncle Andrew. We had a few emotional moments as we hugged and said goodbye. It’s never easy but Jeri and I have learned to fake it.
The Long Beach Airport is small, almost a mom and pop version of an airport. It’s like stepping back in time. There is a observation deck near the small bar and restaurant upstairs. We went up there to watch his plane take off. Like almost all goodbyes, it was bittersweet. Proud that Andrew is the man that he is, independent, confident, self sustaining, his own man. Alternately, sad that he can’t stay.
Ain’t life, ain’t love, a kick in the head?
Randy . . . What a great story, the one how you and Jeri met.
I can only imagine the look you gave the guy at the after-hours club.
You did real good that night. Real good.
-Rick
Randy
Just think if we had to start all over again? No way. I think we're in the best place possible.All the kids and grandkids could never be duplicated. These people who think the grass is greener on the other side usually find a bunch of weeds.




















