Dean Powell

[ttornado]

A great boxing man.
RIP

[IRLangmaid25]

I agree.

Depression is massively misunderstood, especially depression with men.

Its a silent thing quite often, and we would all do well to make sure our loved ones and those close to us are ok.

It is a terrible, terrible thing I do agree, because you know how everyone body else is feeling but you find it very difficult to express how are you are feeling yourself, which is why it is very easy for someone to put a mask on say you are fine until you are almost backed into a corner and made to express how you are felt. As I have had episodes myself where I have so low I have actually not wanted to get out of bed and face people both at University and in work recently, because I lost my Paternal Grandmother in the last couple of months and I was in awful state, and I remember going into work four days after my Grandmother's day and I looked awful from the outside and mentally absolutely rock bottom and my line manager who over the last year or so has become a good friend of mine saw I was not usual self and I explained that day was would have been my Grandmother's birthday etc.

In my current job I remember making an error that I felt so basic and costly I thought I was actually going to sacked from the Partnership my head was all over the joint because of that and what was going on at home, my heartrate was going through the roof, my breathing was all over the place I was a total wreck I was convinced I was going to get tossed because of that and other simple mistakes in the same period. Which made me utterly scared of what would happen next because I really enjoy where I am at the moment and I have hauled myself of quite a dark hole I feared I was going end up back there and in that emotional state I would have done something really stupid such cut myself or even worse. Thankfully my current line manager as we have had a spate of pregnancies at work which has a rejig has got me to see the OT which is good news about that along with my other problem and I am in a better state.

[lefty]

I agree.

Depression is massively misunderstood, especially depression with men.

Its a silent thing quite often, and we would all do well to make sure our loved ones and those close to us are ok.

It is a terrible, terrible thing I do agree, because you know how everyone body else is feeling but you find it very difficult to express how are you are feeling yourself, which is why it is very easy for someone to put a mask on say you are fine until you are almost backed into a corner and made to express how you are felt. As I have had episodes myself where I have so low I have actually not wanted to get out of bed and face people both at University and in work recently, because I lost my Paternal Grandmother in the last couple of months and I was in awful state, and I remember going into work four days after my Grandmother's day and I looked awful from the outside and mentally absolutely rock bottom and my line manager who over the last year or so has become a good friend of mine saw I was not usual self and I explained that day was would have been my Grandmother's birthday etc.

In my current job I remember making an error that I felt so basic and costly I thought I was actually going to sacked from the Partnership my head was all over the joint because of that and what was going on at home, my heartrate was going through the roof, my breathing was all over the place I was a total wreck I was convinced I was going to get tossed because of that and other simple mistakes in the same period. Which made me utterly scared of what would happen next because I really enjoy where I am at the moment and I have hauled myself of quite a dark hole I feared I was going end up back there and in that emotional state I would have done something really stupid such cut myself or even worse. Thankfully my current line manager as we have had a spate of pregnancies at work which has a rejig has got me to see the OT which is good news about that along with my other problem and I am in a better state.

Totally off topic langers but you still doing the charity work you were doing in the past?

[tntround1]

I was introduced to Dean by Mickey Carney. Mickey Carney was a man who did not suffer fools and Mick described Dean to me as a 'Good Man', and he was. He was a confidant of Mickey's. I won a medal at a tournament in Calgary 1997 and on my return Dean had bought me an inscribed tankard to congratulate me. He presented it to me down at the fish shop where we spent some top evenings.

He truly was a Good Man. He IS and will continue to be greatly missed. God Bless Dean and Sleep Tight Pal. X

[whiskey]

Enquiry opened:

http://www.newsshopper.co.uk/news/lewisham/10677005._/?

[JamesH]

Enquiry opened:

http://www.newsshopper.co.uk/news/lewisham/10677005._/?

I am fortunate to have limited experience in such matters. I'd always thought in cut and dry cases its gets opened and closed in quick succession, rather than adjourned. I take it my understanding was incorrect?

[Eddy]

Does anyone know the reason(s) why he did it?

[punchers chance]

Enquiry opened:

http://www.newsshopper.co.uk/news/lewisham/10677005._/?

I am fortunate to have limited experience in such matters. I'd always thought in cut and dry cases its gets opened and closed in quick succession, rather than adjourned. I take it my understanding was incorrect?

It's the other way really James.
they open it shortly after an unusual death and then adjourn it to gather all the evidence of what happened. the police will probably speak to the family, friends, witnesses etc and present their findings to the coronoer who will give a formal ruling of the cause of death. this will be another dreadful ordeal for the family I'm afraid.

[TopGun]

Very sad news. I didn't know Dean personally but did ask him a question once. Who was the best boxer he had worked with and he said Amir Khan was up there.

[JamesH]

Enquiry opened:

http://www.newsshopper.co.uk/news/lewisham/10677005._/?

I am fortunate to have limited experience in such matters. I'd always thought in cut and dry cases its gets opened and closed in quick succession, rather than adjourned. I take it my understanding was incorrect?

It's the other way really James.
they open it shortly after an unusual death and then adjourn it to gather all the evidence of what happened. the police will probably speak to the family, friends, witnesses etc and present their findings to the coronoer who will give a formal ruling of the cause of death. this will be another dreadful ordeal for the family I'm afraid.

I see.... Of course, you are right, a dreadful ordeal. Thanks for explaining

[pablothunder]

RIP Dean Powell.
I've no idea how I'd missed this tragic news. The subsequent posts on the fine man himself and the touching nature of peoples own experiences have left quite an impression on me.
The subject is a close one to me also (have lost people and had internal wars of my own).. all I have to add is, you cannot control the actions of others but sometimes just a look or a touch or a word can be the difference, that day at least.
Rest well Dean. And my thoughts also go to those close to him.

[Eddy]

To me depression is a lot like the weather. No matter how black or grey or stormy, it will pass. What people fail to understand is, when you're in the middle of it, you can't just snap out of it, or "be greatfull for what you do have" ect. It doesn't work like that. I've tried every thing to combat it. Training and a good diet does work for sure, plus some form of contact with people. As you can drift into isolation and go off the radar. Some days I coud not get out off bed, other days you'd have to peel me of the ceiling.

[palooka]

To me depression is a lot like the weather. No matter how black or grey or stormy, it will pass. What people fail to understand is, when you're in the middle of it, you can't just snap out of it, or "be greatfull for what you do have" ect. It doesn't work like that. I've tried every thing to combat it. Training and a good diet does work for sure, plus some form of contact with people. As you can drift into isolation and go off the radar. Some days I coud not get out off bed, other days you'd have to peel me of the ceiling.

Do you think you may have a minor bi polar disorder, Eddy?

[JamesH]

Do you think you may have a minor bi polar disorder, Eddy?

This may sound stupid, but for some years now I have believed that everybody has at least minor bi polar disorder. I think most people have had episodes that have made them question their own susceptibility to the condition, but I believe its predefined within us and the outcome is dictated by one or a combination of: life events and circumstance, our ability (while in the grips of the depression) to manage it, the openness of which we're able to discuss the issues, and the circle of friends around us. In most cases the professionals will talk through the issue, using a method which invites the 'patient' to do most of the talking. Sometimes that role is assumed by your Mrs, your mate, your family, and I've even seen it among colleagues. People sometimes assume the happy-go-lucky are disaffected, but it's not true. Too many examples have proved it not to be the case.

Apologies for diluting the thread, stuff like this always gets me deep. It's the sad reality that it could happen to anyone of us.

[Bomber 1]

I don't think Dean was really himself on camera in interviews. He was perhaps too aware of what he was saying and didn't want to upset anyone. In the corner he was great - clear, insightful and forceful. He knew when he was needed and when he wasn't. Very much in the Dennie Mancini mould. Although if you watched him in that role you'd still not really see the way he was in person.

Dean had a stressful job but he could laugh about it. He had a warm smile and when he asked you about your family he wanted to hear the answer.

He was actually one of the most sociable people I've ever met. Considering that every day he'd have to make and take so, so many calls, he'd just talk and talk away. There would always be a joke, an anecdote, an excuse to laugh. 'It's easier getting an audience with the pope than getting hold of you!'

When I look back to starting work with Frank Maloney more than 20 years ago I can't believe that he was just in his mid 20's with so much authority, knowledge and responsibility. I still have a bound leather address book on my desk that he gave me back in 1994, with a lovely inscription.

Over the years I found out about many good deeds and kind acts that he'd done behind the scenes. Favours that no one was ever supposed to hear about and couldn't be repaid.

R.I.P. Dean

That was Dean, I still can't believe it and can't quite come to terms with it, there is a few fighters who feel the same, so very very sad it really is.. R.I.P Dean..

[manno]

Awful awful news, RIP Dean Powell.

Like others here I have suffered with depression and it is horrendous; dark, lonely and so so difficult to retain any hope for beating it. I only recently overcame my 2nd serious bout and returned to work this month after nearly 4 months of being unable to work (or do much else for that matter).

It's so difficult to comprehend unless you have suffered with it and I do get why people struggle to understand it; now I've come through the other side I find it hard to comprehend myself just where my head was only a matter a weeks ago. Fortunately there does seem to be a lot more awareness now and my employer and colleagues have been very supportive of me and have been great in helping me successfully return to work.

In terms of those that so tragically take their lives I have nothing but sympathy and I find it difficult to hear people refer to them as cowards, or castigate them for leaving their loved ones behind. I agree with what has been said by others here, when facing it you actually find it takes a lot of balls. It's not a case of wanting to die, it's a matter of not being able to face the terrible pain of depression, the hopelessness, seeing the effect it has on those close to you and seeing how quickly your life can fall apart an to be facing the possible loss of everything you hold dear; it sounds twisted when you are not suffering with depression but one of the hardest things is wanting the pain to end but feeling certain that you cannot get better and yet you don't have the guts to put an end to it. It really does seem that there is no way out and the thought of where you will end up is terrifying.

Apologies for a long, depressing post but I think it is so important that more and more people understand this illness and take it seriously to prevent further tragedies in future. I guess i feel some responsibility to try to do my bit to raise awaeness. Depression can be overcome but it is bloody hard, and I consider being able to endure it and come out the other side to be my greatest achievement in life. I was very lucky that I was able to talk about it with people and was able to get the help I needed, sadly not everyone is so fortunate to have sympathetic friends and colleagues, nor access to the right treatment - in my experience although the help offered by the NHS is better than a few years ago it is still woefully inadequate.

R.I.P. Dean, and my thoughts to all those that will miss him.

One of the best summaries ive read about depression.

[tonyevs]

Only heard of this sad news yesterday.
Condolences to all Deans family and friends.
Rest in peace Dean Powell

[NazNaci1]

Extremely sad when you hear news like this. Whatever the reasons, accident or otherwise, I hope he is happy wherever he may be.

RIP Dean.

[Matt W]

Thanks Manno.

[Matt W]

Cheers Terry, "I didn't hear no bell!" We'll have to meet up soon.

[freddydoesdallas]

Shocking news and I hate the thought if people going through this kind of torment. I've lost some very close people in my life in ways like this and just wish we were all less macho at times. I'm really worried about a mate at the minute and this has given me more encouragement to keep going with over the top communication with him.

To those who have said on here that they are or have struggled, talk to a mate, they will help.

RIP Dean. I hope the black clouds have now gone

[Tom Ford]

RIP Dean. I hope the black clouds have now gone

[wesley05]

My only memory of dean was when he nicked my bottoms to go in corner after mi brother fought ha ha top bloke x

[Craig14]

Seemed a nice touch having Deans name around the top rope at the Copperbox last night.

[palooka]

Seemed a nice touch having Deans name around the top rope at the Copperbox last night.

Yes, it was a nice touch