I don't think I could have made as strong a bond with Rodolfo "Gato" Gonzalez if I hadn't married my wife Maria.In the last 45 years I've morphed gradually into person of two worlds.The symbiosis was never much of a transition,but we're night and day when it comes to temperaments. Essentially, I'm a worrier and a perfectionist that often manifests into flying off the handle and paranoia. Maria is calm ,steady, unselfish that expresses accepting everyone on their terms and a empathy for the tumultuous souls that wander the face of the earth. For her,life is in God's hands. For me,I can't let go of my grip.
Rodolfo is like many of the Mexican fighters that my wife has crossed paths with. When I meet a fighter from Mexico I'll open with something about Mexico-a custom,a tradition.I went to get footing on a common ground. Rodolfo was born in the state of Jalisco in Guadalajara,Mexico.When he was a boy his parents wanted him to become a bullfighter.He came from a poor family but he had kin that were boxers.Jose Becerra and Alacran Torres were uncle and cousin respectively. He credits his uncle with showing him how to throw the left hook. Cousin Alacran can take bows for teaching the skills end.
My wife is from the state of Michoacán,the state south of Jalisco.,The town where she grew up,Jiquilpan,is a typical pueblo,the kind where Rodolfo was tossed to the lions earning his rep..A 15 year old kid face to face with fighters double his age. Like many Mexican fighters he had no amateur experience..The unforgiving make it or break it struggle to establish a name for yourself so that you might get on a card at the Arena Coliseo in Mexico City,and back in those days, a fight in the bullring in Tijuana.If you won you could say you were on your way out of Dodge.But you had to win those fights.Then you'd get a ticket north to show off your stuff at the Olympic Auditorium or the Forum But for a Mexican national to fight in LA was like being in your own backyard. A really big show was the Chicano fighter(born in the USA) opposite the homegrown product from Mexico. The crowds,mostly Mexican(Chicano and Mexican national), directed their applause at the man from below the border.
So when Rodolfo was trading punches in LA with local talent like Bobby Valdez and Ruben Navarro the aficianados were yelling,"Keel heem Gato." But after it was all said and done,Rodolfo losing his title to the Japanese Guts Ishimatsu, and then again in the rematch, he decided to get out of boxing while he still had his health. But Rodolfo didn't return to Guadalajara.With his earnings he bought a house in Tijuana for his mother. When she passed he signed the property over to his brother.Today, Rodolfo and Barbara,his soulmate, live in Oceanside,California which is located in the north county of San Diego.
When it's one on one with me and Gato the talk is mostly about fighting,but when my wife steps in ,the conversation will shift to central Mexico and Tijuana.i'm kind of glad when that happens.Rodolfo competed in the stratosphere of pugilism.Big fights.Big wins. 66 opponents that couldn't last with him. The WBC lightweight championship. But like a lot of ex pugs,especially with a history like Rodolfo's,there's a yen for the past when the crowd never went away.Rodolfo remembers all his fights. He can recall punch for punch about his early fights in places like Jiquilpan,Yurecuaro,Atontonilco,and Atemajac,names that even Mexicans have a hard time pronouncing,Those fights are cherished because without those successes someone else would have been challenging Chango Carmona for the title.
A few years ago I invited Rodolfo and Barbara to our place for some of Maria's "comida familiar"-home cooking. She worked on camarones empanicados and pollo de la parrilla-breaded shrimp and grilled chicken. When I sent out the invite Rodolfo made an urgent request.
"Please no onions.No ceboya.I no like onions."
"I'll tell her Rodolfo,"I said assuredly.
There are certain gimmees in this world:Life,death,taxes,and Maria's cooking satisfying even the pickiest eater. That evening Barbara and Rodolfo ate like they had just been on bread and water for a month. The four of us chewing and talking reminisced about Mexico,old Mexico; life on the ranch;who had the better voice,Pedro Infante or Javier Solis;when Rodolfo bought a bar in the Couahuila;wearing hand me down clothes,riding the family horse into town with you brothers and sisters also sharing the horse's back;subsisting on corn tortillas wrapped around chile and salt;working in the garbanzo fields for a peso a day;going out to the pasture and milking the cow's teets into a glass and then adding a shot of cane alcohol and a spoon of Ovaltine. Stories that only the people that lived them could tell without pretense. Mexico,so near yet so far away.
I'm glad my wife remembered that night to leave out the onions or I might not have heard some good stories.

A second helping for Gato



















